A phone call from the state? Oooh, another roeasn for me to be grateful for homebirth! I suspect I used to want to be a writer just for the joy of picking out names for my characters. Now I have Sims and can be as creative and strange as I want, Sims don't care. I love your rear endessment of when a man should be able to name a child! LOL Listen buddy! Oh I died laughing at that one!Your baby's name is lovely, and you can always tell her that no matter what her middle name might mean she was named with love. And you thought long and hard and knew that after her parents, her grandmother loved her most.