David,Thank you for your post. It is difficult to criztciie motivated, morally-minded men who rear endemble under the church banner. However, when we are rear endemble out of a response to a participant demographic report (60% women making up the church), we dive into the waves of pragmatism, and are driven by numbers. We then join the ranks of the church growth folks who are also driven by marketing and performance metrics, under the church banner, appealing to the psychological needs of the audience.Embracing testosterone and manhood may be appropriate in a fraternal organization.But our church family, the Bride of Christ, is not a fraternal organization. It is the broken, contrite heart that God demands. There is nothing more masculine, nothing more feminine for that matter, than a broken vessel of a man or woman indwelled by the Holy Spirit.Ecclesiastes 9: 14 describes a little city with a few men in it 14 There was a little city with few men in it, and a great king came against it and besieged it, building great siegeworks against it. 15But there was found in it a poor, wise man, and he by his wisdom delivered the city. Yet no one remembered that poor man. 16But I say that wisdom is better than might, though the poor man's wisdom is despised and his words are not heard.If we want to see more men in our church families, we must start with the men that are there. If the pastor and elders are faithful to The Word of God, then the Wisdom of the Holy Spirit will be their strength and strong tower. If the church family is really a New Testament Church family, the encouragement, fellowship and accountability will exist.You won't have to go to a coliseum or join an organization.God blessJim