@Orvis18: My problem is his name is Thomas. I rellay dislike the name Thomas (no offense to anyone who loves it). But my FI is Tommy, as is my dad, My grandfather and his dad are both Tom.. so I suggested, that once we have a son, we could call him T. J. which is his first and middle initial and FI was totally against it because that is apparently what people used to call his big sister.I'm not a fan of the middle name either. =/